Okay, I know you guys are having some issues as far as RAM goes, but the crashing is getting, well.... completely fucking ridiculous.
I have most likely the shittiest computer you'll ever see, and I can host a steady 10 man server. You should be able to as well.
If the server crashes, don't take an hour to put it back up! It hurts your uptime on minestatus, makes your users want to leave, and pisses off those dedicated to you.
Restarting your server Is as easy as double clicking your mouse, there's no reason for the crazy amount of downtime.
Sorry for the rant guys, but try to keep this server stable, its making me and many other users unhappy to say the least.